When people say Stiles is an unnecessary character:
… do people really say that this? Welp, I guess its bubble bursting time..
In any great tv series, the main charater has a right hand. Kenan and kel, Melissa and joey, will and grace, greg and darma, ren and stimpy, Bevis and butthead. Batman had robin and charlie brown had snoopy. Shagg and scooby doo. Dora has boots, Austin has ally. The need for a co-star that compliments the main character is paramount in any successful television series. I mean come one, Benson and Stabler the doctor and (insert co star here) Sam and Dean, merlin and authur. But Stiles is unnecessary? I invite me to tell me how? I guarantee that Teen wolf wouldn’t have made it to a pseudo 4th season without Stiles. Especially not with the bad acting that went on all up n thru season 1.
Firdtly, HOLY CRAP ITS BEEN A WHILE. My bad, Journal.
Last saturday, at 9:44am, my second eldest sister gave birth to my Newphew. And yesterday, I got to see and hold him for the first time. Holy crap my newphew is the cutest little thing ever! And while I know I’m a bias uncle but all bias aside (or as much of it as a proud uncle can put aside) he is a cutie! I am so happy to be an uncle. I can’t wait to see who he becomes and do everything I can to help him be a great little dude! And he has great parents and awesome grandparents and another uncle and aunt along with countless cousins(1st, 2nd, 3rd and 4th) great, great-great and great-great-great uncles and aunts and a partridge in a frickin pear tree. I am nervous but nerves are good in such an important job, keeps you diligent and all that. Im just excited!
In other news.
Its been close to a month since I started my new job and I must say I love it. I work at a toy store on 3rd shift(usually 11pm to 7-8am) which I love because I’m a night owl. While the work we do is hard and tiring, it is made bareable by the awesome people I work with. The pay ain’t that bad either.
In later news
My gf wants to “Have a talk” and by have a talk I’m pretty sure she means try and articulate something that she has blown to galactic proportion because she will think and over think and super over think every little thing (and when I say little I mean like me being, in her mind, too quite) until it is a towering mountain. Now, the reason this has me so annoyed is because she does this all the time. And it wouldnt be so bad if she could just get out what she wanted to say…oh no… she will start (and mind you, she will do this at the most…awkward time.. like after great sex [and im talking mutuality world rocking sex] or after we habe a great evening out. Or while were partying…. or when im exhausted because I work and some days cant sleep cause I have school meanimg ill be awake for a solid 27 hours and just when I’m about to unwind BAM, out of left field she wanna talk.) Then get too emotional and cry for 20 min. Start again, dance around what she wanna say. Start getting upset cause she cant get out what she wants to say. Stop, gets a pad and paper, starts to write out what she wants to say which takes 20 min. Starts again, stops half way cause shes too emotional. Start again gets almost all the way through what she wants to say before stopping right before the most important part, getting too emotional, stopping and crying for 15 min before finishing. And mind you, this is just her telling me how she is feeling , I have no clue what has caused all this so, I ask what happened to make her feel like this and slowly we follow her train of thought back to a time when she thinks I was upset with her that led me to be too quite that day and her making it all her fault…. not, she obviously pissed me off or we argued or anything. Just me being too quite or seeming upset. So, by that point im bewildered cause she does all this crying and beimg upset about nothing. Now, dont get me wrong, journal. I don’t voice this to her because I know she needs me to listen and I do listen and give the best counsil I can because I love her and as her bf one of my jobs is to support her even when it may not be opportune for me. Does that mean it don’t bug the fuck out of me? No. Will I continue to support her and listen even if for the most minutely (in my eyes) small reason. Yes. Guess it just boils down to me wishing she would pick better times. Like, not right after sex or after a great day between the two of us. Maybe there is no “right time” but there is, I believe a better time. Maybe like when I ask how you are you say”actually somethings bugging me” or when I ask “hey, are you okay?” You could reply with. “You know what, there is something I wanna talk about.” At least that way, I can not only better prepare myself, but it doesn’t ruin(and I use that word im the lightest of ways) a great momemt or evening. But I digress.
I do love her though… that’s why I listen and do the best I can to 1, not invalidate her feelings. I mean, just because I see no stock in the matter, doesn’t mean she does not. And 2, try and understand where shes coming from.
Thus is the struggle of love I suppose.
On a bit of a darker note.
I have been slacking on my diet/working out. I need to get back to it. But when you are juggling so much, its easy to get into the “I’ll do it tomorrow” attitude. I don’t wanna get there… I don’t wanna gain weight back, that leads to a bad road. So, I gotta get back to it..
On a lighter note,
I got half of my christmas shopping done.
Welp, I think thats it, journal. Thanks for listening! ;)
I am alive and well (well technically, I’m getting over a cold.) With work, school, holiday’s, my newborn nephew, and a relationship, I don’t have time any time to actually come on tumblr and do much of anything. But if the
Lack of messages (and by lack I mean none) is anything to go by, all of you who at one point or another established a line of communication with me are super busy as well. Or, you just don’t give a shit. Either way, I’m doing well and I hope you are too.